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16 dispatches
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Otoshi and the Dish I Never Ordered
Otoshi is the small dish an izakaya sets down before I order anything, and the few hundred yen it adds to the bill is the table charge nobody mentions.
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Hongdae Nightlife and the Ride Home
Hongdae nightlife runs until the trains stop, and the taxi meter is the only number anybody can quote you honestly at four in the morning.
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Philippines Dating Apps Are Two Markets
The apps that rank for Philippines dating apps aren't the ones Filipinos download, and the gap between those two lists is priced in dollars.
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Vietnam Dating Apps and the Bar Bill
Vietnam's dating apps cost nothing to use and the download chart is half video chat. The money in Vietnamese dating waits for you at the table.
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Tinder in Thailand Asked Me for Nothing
Tinder in Thailand never asked for an ID or a Thai number, and I was swiping the evening I landed. The paperwork that matters sits at the border.
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Korean Dating Apps Sell Ribbons and Jelly
The Korean dating apps sell ribbons, jelly and gems instead of subscriptions, and most of them want a phone number registered in my own name.
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Tinder in Korea Is Not Tinder in Japan
Tinder in Korea never asked me for an ID, which surprised me after Japan. The real gate sits somewhere else, and nobody warns you about it.
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Japanese Dating Apps: What They Really Cost
Four Japanese dating apps, the prices their own pages charge today, and the paperwork each one wanted before it would let me send a message.
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Tapple Dating App: Free Until You Message
Tapple is free until somebody messages, and then only the men pay. What a month really costs in yen, and what the app asks of a foreigner.
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Tinder in Japan as a Foreigner
Tinder in Japan won't let you message anyone until an ID clears the age check. What it accepts, what it rejects, and why the matches go quiet.
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Pairs Dating App in Japan as a Foreigner
What it really takes to get onto Pairs in Japan as a foreigner: the Japanese phone number, the residence card, and what a full year of it costs.
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TanTan in China, Hong Kong and Japan
I used TanTan across China, Hong Kong, Macau and Japan. What it costs, the scams it runs on, and who you actually meet in each place.
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Bumble Profile Tips for Men in Asia: Photos, Bio, and Mistakes
Bumble profile tips for men in Asia: what photos to use, what your bio should signal, and the profile mistakes that quietly kill your match rate.
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After You Match: What to Do Next
A practical note on moving a match from Bumble to KakaoTalk, LINE, WeChat, or WhatsApp without looking unsafe or desperate.
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How I Use Bumble in Asia
My practical Bumble field note for Asia: opening moves, swipe ratios, boosts, Premium, and the profiles I skip.
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Dating in Asia as a Western Man: The Fever, the Advantage, and the Traps
A practical field note on attention, apps, money, signals, and language barriers when dating in Asia as a Western man.